
60 Days of Ritual, Restoration & Relaxation with Relax DMV
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Reclaiming My Time!
For the past 60 days, I’ve been fully immersed in the Relax DMV experience—and it’s been nothing short of transformative.
As an Air Force veteran, managing depression and anxiety has been a part of my personal journey. I’ve spent the last four years working with a therapist and creating intentional self-care practices that help me stay grounded and present. So when I say these products work, I mean that they’ve been tried and true.
They’re not just beautifully packaged or smell divine —they’re purpose-filled. Relax DMV became part of how I re-centered during some heavy days, and supported me while I navigated an emotional season.
Let’s start with the first scent I tried: Ultra Black Body Butter —a rich, sultry blend of black cardamom, smoky vanilla, and musk. I burned the Ultra Black Candle paired it with the 24-hour moisture body butter to elevate my mood and step into full-on boss energy. I layered it with Nocturne by House of Iyrah before heading to my first influencer event—and I felt completely aligned with my higher self. I even had strangers in New York City stop me in the street just to ask what fragrance I was wearing.
60 Days of Ritual, Restoration & Relaxation with Relax DMV (VIDEO)
✨ Mrs. Black Owned’s Higher Self Ritual & Scent Combo
Products:
Nocturne Fragrance by House of Iyrah
How to Ritualize It:
Run a bath or shower at your ideal temperature.
Dry brush your full body to awaken the skin.
On damp skin, massage Ultra Black Body Butter from head to toe.
Allow it to fully absorb.
Take a small amount of butter in your hand, spray 2–4 spritzes of Nocturne into it, rub together, and apply to your neck, arms, and décolleté.
Let it dry down.
Get dressed.
Walk out feeling completely aligned.
Mood: Confident. Grounded. Unapologetically in your power.
💫Mrs. Black Owned’s Feeling Fragrant Ritual & Scent Combo
Products:
How to Ritualize It:
Light your candle and place it nearby as you prep your bath or shower.
Dry brush from head to toe.
On damp skin, massage in No Bad Energy Body Butter.
Allow your skin to absorb every bit.
Blend a small scoop of butter with 2–4 sprays of Khamrah, then apply to upper body.
Get dressed and let the fragrance move with you.
Mood: Sweet. Centered. Fully present in the moment.
💫🛁 Mrs. Black Owned’s No Bad Energy Reset Ritual
Products:
Epsom Salt of your choice
How to Ritualize It:
Draw a warm bath and add Epsom salts to the water.
Light your No Bad Energy candle.
Mist the bath water and bathroom air with the Air Mist.
Dry brush from head to toe, slowly and intentionally.
Soak in the bath. Breathe. Unwind. Reconnect.
Pat dry gently—leave skin slightly damp.
Massage in the Body Butter from neck to toe.
Mix a bit of butter with 2–4 sprays of Tamarindo, apply to upper body.
Let it all melt into your skin.
Dress. Let go of what no longer serves you.
Mood: Restored. Rebalanced. REBUILT.
Over the past two months, I’ve had some difficult days. But every time I carved out space for these rituals, I felt a shift—mentally, emotionally, physically. The intention behind Relax DMV is REAL, and it shows up in every product, every scent, every act of care.
💫 I created different rituals for different needs:
• Ultra Black gave me clarity, confidence, and empowerment.
• No Bad Energy helped me release tension, restore balance, and feel emotionally lighter.
If you’re navigating anxiety, grief, burnout, or just need a reminder to pour back into yourself—this is your sign. Slow down. Breathe. Reclaim your peace.
With Love and Intention,
Kay
Beauty by Mrs. Black Owned

Kay | Beauty By Mrs. Black Owned
Beauty By Mrs. Black Owned @beautybymrsblackowned Beauty by Mrs. Black Owned is a love letter to Black-Owned brilliance in beauty, fragrance, and self-care. Powered by audacity, I share rituals that restore, products that feel like elevation and celebrate the founders who produce them all!Original Blog Post