New Arrival: Let That Sh*t Go – A Cleansing Mood for Mind + Space
"Cleanse your space. Calm your mind. It’s time to Let That Sht Go."
Rob Naylor Jr.
U.S. Air Force Senior Non-Commissioned Officer with over 22 years of service and the founder of Relax DMV, a luxury wellness brand built around aromatherapy, resilience, and self-care. Drawing on his leadership experience and personal journey, Rob creates mood-inspired candles and body care products that encourage people to pause, reset, and embrace balance. When he’s not leading in uniform or hand-pouring candles, he’s pursuing his M.S. in Organizational Leadership at Johns Hopkins University and inspiring others to live with no bad energy.
I’ve always loved the art of smudging. What’s smudging, you ask? Simply put, it’s “burning sage” to cleanse your space and clear out negative vibes. I fell in love with not just the ritual, but also the fragrance, so much so that I decided to capture that same energy in a candle.
And because lavender has always been my go-to for relaxation, I thought: why not blend the two? For about a year now, I’ve been hand-pouring sage candles for our home, and let me tell you, the calm they bring is unmatched. Add lavender to the mix, and suddenly you’ve got an aromatic one-two punch of cleansing and relaxation.
That’s exactly how our newest mood was born: “Let That Sh*t Go.” It’s not just a candle; it’s a reminder to release what no longer serves you and fill your space with calm, clarity, and peace.
The Art of Smudging with Sage
Smudging is an ancient spiritual practice that involves burning sacred herbs—most commonly white sage—to cleanse a person, object, or space of negative energy. Rooted in Indigenous traditions across the Americas, smudging has long been used in ceremonies to invite balance, peace, and protection. When sage is lit, its smoke is believed to attach itself to stagnant energy, lifting it away as the smoke disperses into the air.
How It Works
Cleansing: The rising smoke is thought to clear unwanted or heavy energy from a space.
Grounding: The earthy, herbal scent of sage helps center the mind, making it easier to release stress and focus on the present.
Intention Setting: Smudging is often paired with affirmations or prayers, which direct the purpose of the ritual—whether that’s healing, clarity, or relaxation.
Modern Use
Today, many people practice smudging as a ritual of self-care and mindfulness. Lighting sage or sage-infused candles can create a calming environment that encourages deep breathing, reflection, and renewal. The combination of sage with calming botanicals like lavender (as in your Let That Sht Go* candle) enhances this ritual, blending tradition with modern aromatherapy.
Aromatic Benefits of Lavender
🌙 Promotes Relaxation
The soft, floral aroma of lavender is widely known for its calming effect. It soothes the nervous system, helping to quiet the mind after a long day.😴 Supports Better Sleep
Lavender has been used for centuries as a natural sleep aid. Its scent helps prepare the body for rest, making it a go-to for bedtime rituals.🌿 Reduces Stress + Anxiety
Breathing in lavender’s fragrance has been shown to ease feelings of stress and tension, creating a sense of balance and emotional clarity.💆 Relieves Tension
The aroma may also help relax tight muscles and ease physical discomfort, making it perfect for unwinding during self-care.🕯️ Enhances Mood + Atmosphere
Beyond its therapeutic effects, lavender simply smells amazing. Its crisp-yet-sweet aroma refreshes the air, making any space feel serene and inviting.